If you’ve never before tried anal beads personally…well, let’s just say you are long overdue a treat! Simple in design yet explosive in the delivery of pure pleasure, anal beads really should be a staple in every bedroom.
Contrary to popular belief, they are neither ‘weird’ nor difficult or uncomfortable to use. In fact, the vast majority of people don’t even understand how they work or what they are supposed to do. In some instances, anal beads are turned to by those who want to slowly but surely work their way up to anal sex. Perfectly fine, but even if you don’t have anal sex on your mind to any extent whatsoever, you’ll still have the time of your life with a good set of anal beads.
Don’t Be Scared…!
With most anal beads, the string starts off with an extremely small bead, with the rest slowly but surely getting bigger. This in turn means there’s really nothing to be scared of and the whole process of getting started isn’t nearly as intimidating as you might think. Start off by popping the tiny beads in, before working your way up to larger options as you get a little more adventurous.
It also surprises many women to learn that anal beads can bring as much pleasure to men as they can to women. Nevertheless, it’s considerably rarer to find a man who is willing to openly admit he’s into anal beads…let alone buy and use them on himself! Still, bring them into the bedroom for his benefit and you’ll be looking at eternal gratitude…trust us on that one!
Of course, just as is the case with all sex toys across the board, it’s important to ensure you get it right when putting anal beads to use. Particularly if you have no experience with them and might find yourself making one or two mistakes along the way.
So as far as the experts are concerned, what are the most important things you need to know about anal beads, if you intend to get maximum value and enjoyment out of them?
1. Use lube
Well, first of all you’re going to need to invest in and use a quality lubricant. Good thing to remember here is that because anal beads are often made of silicon, it’s a good idea to stay away from silicone-based lubricants. Use a generous amount of water-based lube for maximum comfort and enjoyment, reapplying as and when required throughout.
2. Getting started
The key to ‘success’ when experimenting with anal beads lies in starting slowly. Always remember that there is no rush whatsoever to step up to the larger and more challenging beads. Feel free to play around with the smallest beads for as long as necessary, slowly but surely graduating to larger beads, as and when you feel ready.
3. Find your perfect size and fit
Take the time to shop around for the perfect anal beads for your own personal preferences and body type. Always remember that if you intend to use your anal beads with a partner, what represents the perfect sex toy for them might not be perfect for you. Find the perfect size and fit for you, though don’t be afraid to experiment!
4. For the more adventurous
Speaking of which, if you really want to take things to extremes, why not invest in a set of high-quality vibrating anal beads? As the name quite rightly suggests, these extraordinary gadgets combine the pleasure of traditional anal beads with the mind-blowing sensation of a vibrator. Guaranteed to blow minds with every use.
5. Timing is everything
One of the most important things to remember when using anal beads is that timing really is everything. The idea being that the string of beads should be very slowly and carefully pulled out at the time the individual in question experiences orgasm. This is why it is of the utmost importance to communicate consistently, ensuring you let them know when and where to get the job done…so to speak.
6. Be safe
In terms of safety, there are two extremely important considerations to factor in. First and foremost, ensure that the anal beads you buy are of the highest quality and have been verified as comprehensively skin-safe and hypoallergenic if necessary. Secondly, you also need to ensure that the beads have some kind of handle or ring on the end, in order to avoid them slipping completely inside your body.
7. Keep it clean
Last but not least, hygiene really doesn’t have to be an issue – just as long as you ensure you keep yourself and your anal beads as clean as possible. The best way of doing so being to use an approved sex toy cleaner, or some other kind of antibacterial cleaner in-between uses. For obvious reasons, it’s a good idea to stay away from any harsh chemicals that may leave residues behind on the anal beads.